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Nowadays, there are no eternal things except eternal haters. They crawl through social networks right to your brain and make you feel negligible and humiliated. Is it a familiar feeling for you, right? So, I suggest that you should find out some useful points on how to deal with these mostly anonymous freaking offenders. Sometimes they really bring benefits, and they can also become loyal subscribers. The main thing here is to learn how to work with negativity. Yes, yes, you didn’t hear, sometimes you even need to talk with haters.

1. Accept the fact that the negative is likely to be always:

You will not please everyone and do not forget about it. Therefore, the appearance of negativity in the comments is inevitable, so the question is  how much. Everyone has haters but not everyone hates them.

2. Relax, take it easy:

Before answering the negative, for starters, it’s important to let go of the anger and suppress the emotions that whisper to answer the same. Rudeness does not solve anything. It can only aggravate the situation, but you do not need it.

So, as soon as you see the first hater’s comment, go to make tea, turn on the series / movie, play with your cat or dog and only then sit back at the computer. Time will help to move away a little and respond more calmly.

3. Criticism is not a hate:

There is criticism, and there is a hate, so do not forget to distinguish these concepts. If somebody criticizes your work, it is important to do a review and provide an answer. And if you see an empty comment, the main purpose of which is an insult, pass by and don’t even waste time. Continued dispute will not increase community loyalty.

4. Try to hear the rioter:

Try to show that you value the feedback of your viewers, even if they speak out negatively. Accept a different point of view, the more such comments can actually be useful.

Answering: “Thank you very much for the tip. It’s interesting to know this from the other side, ” you will arrange a person by getting acquainted with his opinion and take the time to give him feedback.

Answering: “Thank you very much for the tip. It’s interesting to know this from the other side, ” you will arrange a person by getting acquainted with his opinion and take the time to give him feedback.

5. Humor (and cats) will save the world:

And of course, keep in mind that humor is the best form of therapy! People like non-standard answers, and in most cases, they are always ready to support the conversation with a joke.

Finally, I want to advise you to make fewer value judgments. We don’t know what drives a person when he writes nasty things under your posts, so try talking to him. In the end, he can become your most-loyal subscriber. I wish everyone the peace and fat cats. Smile and your hater will grin to you!:)

April 22, 2020