How comparison can kill your soul

I hate when people start comparing them with other much popular or somebody who achieved more. It’s just not fair and it will always be.

At the age of 13-14, I was under the weather all the time. My parents had no idea what was going on. And my main reason to feel miserable was that I was worse than anyone in anything. There were no things that I was good at. And after I told my mother about my feelings, she said a really important thing to me. Something like ‘Never compare your first chapter with somebody’s tenth.’ It’s changed me. I find the best of both worlds. I wasn’t the best, but I wasn’t the worst as well. So I just need to find my motivation to become better and better. And I found it.

As we know “No pain, no gain.” So we should work but not only in our study or professional sphere but also with our mindset.

Everybody should understand that life is not easy at all but if we concentrate on good aspects that is what we will have in the future.

One of my friends doesn’t want to be a big fish in a little sea. She wants to be one of the best. In this dog-eat-dog world, it can be hard especially when you are young. So she compares herself with people in everything and I’m sure one day she will lose her ability to believe.

These days I talk with her a lot about her uniqueness and that loving her soul as easy as a pie. So I pray that one day she will find out that she is the main character of her life and there are no reasons for comparison.

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